I grew up on horseback, riding as fast as I could through the wide-open fields of the Pacific Northwest. I’ve always been called a little wild, and when I was given the chance to choose my own last name, I chose Wilder.
I came to this work by accident, which has always seemed to be one of God’s signature moves. But when I encountered storywork, ritual, and somatic healing, something in me began to shift. I found a way of listening beneath the surface, tending to the stories we carry in our bodies, and reclaiming the pieces of ourselves we’ve left behind along the way.
Today, I walk alongside women through the sacred cycles of life, death, and becoming — midwifing the unraveling, the remembering, and the emergence of who they are becoming.
When I’m not at the river or line dancing, you can usually find me chasing the sun, chasing my two sons, or somewhere in between, learning to live a little wilder myself.
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Ww
Whitney Wilder
Poiēma: You are a divine poem.
I believe each woman carries a story that is still unfolding — a living poem shaped by the seasons she has survived, the love she has known, the grief she has carried, and the parts of herself she has tucked away to belong.
My approach is rooted in the belief that healing doesn't ask us to become someone new, but to return to what has always been ours. Through storywork, embodiment, ritual, and our relationship with the natural world, we create space to listen beneath the surface, tend to what has been forgotten, and reclaim the wild, sacred parts of ourselves.
Like the river, we are always moving through seasons of shedding, becoming, breaking open, and beginning again. This is the work of remembering who we are—not by writing a new story, but by learning to inhabit our own.
LA VIDA ES COMO UN RIO
poetry of the FEMINine
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Want my favorite sourdough recipe? It's the best one. Promise. Want to create a ritual for an upcoming threshold, milestone or event? Come create with me! Want to book a story-film session? Let's go.
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This is an immersive, 3-day Storywork experience with me as your guide. We meet for 15 hours and do deep work, not just in your story, but in your body, your beliefs, and your nervous system. Think nature, ritual, story and body.
Intensives
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There's something magical that happens when a group of women gather and tell stories, rest from the chaos of the world, and reclaim part of their inner wild. If you're ready for a shift in your life, this is for you.
Retreats
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I offer basic beginner riding lessons to locals in Washington state. I also offer unique healing experiences that blend together Storywork and horse medicine.
Equine
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Storywork is the practice of paying attention to the story of your life. I offer 1:1 Coaching sessions with clients who want to step into the life they are longing for, who want to remember and reclaim their truest selves.
Storywork
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Storywork is the practice of paying attention to the story of your life. I offer 1:1 Coaching sessions with clients who want to step into the life they are longing for, who want to remember and reclaim their truest selves.
Storywork
Women's Circles
Online women's groups offered seasonally.
starting at $125
1:1 Coaching (50 min)
50 or 80 min sessions
Virtual or in person
starting at $2000
Individual Intensive
3-day, in person workshop
1 Pre-work and 2 Post-work sessions included
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45 min \\ starting at $300
I offer basic beginner riding lessons to locals in Washington state. I also offer unique healing experiences that blend together Storywork and horse medicine.
Equine
Horse Photography
Do you want photos with my horse? Do you have a horse and want photos done? Let's get creative!
30 min \\ starting at $50
Beginner Lessons
If you want to learn the basics of western riding and become familiar with the world of horses, this offering is for you!
60 min \\ starting at $125
Story + Horse Medicine
A unique experience that braids together story, horses and presence. This is only an option for current Storywork clients.
*Barn is located in
Brush Prairie, Washington
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starting at $2,500
There's something magical that happens when a group of women gather and tell stories, rest from the chaos of the world, and reclaim part of their inner wild. If you're ready for a shift in your life, this is for you.
Retreats
Wilder women -- Signature
Wanship, Utah | 12 Women | All Inclusive
October 2027
Equine + Yoga + Story
starting at $1,500
Once UPon A time
Round Top, Texas | 12 Women | All Inclusive
January 28th-31st
With Osme Retreats | Learn More Here
starting at $2,500
Wilder women -- SIGnature
Wanship, Utah | 12 Women | All Inclusive
Spring 2027
Equine + Yoga + Story
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starting at $2,500
This is an immersive, 3-day Storywork experience with me as your guide. We meet for 15 hours and do deep work, not just in your story, but in your body, your beliefs, and your nervous system. Think nature, ritual, story and body.
Intensives
Investment
This price includes 1 pre-work session and 2 post-work sessions and a 10% discount on any retreat offerings.
Where
We will be meeting at my 1930's Farmhouse in Brush Prairie, Washington. Transport & Lodging not included. (About 20 min from PDX airport)
When
Intensives begin on Thursday morning at 9:00 am through
Saturday 11:00 am. Inquire for available dates.
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starting at $300
Want my favorite sourdough recipe? It's the best one. Promise. Want to create a ritual for an upcoming threshold, milestone or event? Come create with me! Want to book a story-film session? Let's go.
other
Story-Film
Have a story that needs to come to life on film? Let's create a shoot that captures the essence of it's poetry.
starting at $0000
Sourdough
starting at $100
RItual
I can help create a ritual for you for any important occasion. After a 15 min call I will put together a plan, supplies list and writing prompts to help make this a meaningful moment.
